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So lately i been having trouble finding party for SSHM because everytime i would try to apply for a SSHM they would instantly inspect and look at my gear and then look at my PvE runs and if they see that i dont have skilled title on SSHM. They just instantly assume that im not skilled or a sh*tter and they end up declining.
And yes its true that i never managed to beat SSHM before on any of the learning runs, but every time i would come back to that boss and try to beat him again, every time i would learn more things about him and mechanics that would only make me become further skilled at it than even a player that has done it more than 5 times.
The general concept of skilled runs is pretty [filtered] because they instantly assume that if you never cleared that dungeon then you never actually tried or atleast learned about. Infact i tried clearing SSHM over 15 times with different learning groups and we just end up reaching the last boss, getting him to like 2-11 bars and then just wiping.And it was either because our healers died, a ping spiked or people dont understand how debuff pizza mechanic works.
And even though im ready now to do SSHM on a level of more experienced players. I could never find a party. Im constantly being discrimination either because i dont have full +15 imperator gear or im being discriminated because no one wants me to even believe me than im ready. But i am ready so please help me get skilled in SSHM.
I play Ninja on MT server and my item level is 421
And yes its true that i never managed to beat SSHM before on any of the learning runs, but every time i would come back to that boss and try to beat him again, every time i would learn more things about him and mechanics that would only make me become further skilled at it than even a player that has done it more than 5 times.
The general concept of skilled runs is pretty [filtered] because they instantly assume that if you never cleared that dungeon then you never actually tried or atleast learned about. Infact i tried clearing SSHM over 15 times with different learning groups and we just end up reaching the last boss, getting him to like 2-11 bars and then just wiping.And it was either because our healers died, a ping spiked or people dont understand how debuff pizza mechanic works.
And even though im ready now to do SSHM on a level of more experienced players. I could never find a party. Im constantly being discrimination either because i dont have full +15 imperator gear or im being discriminated because no one wants me to even believe me than im ready. But i am ready so please help me get skilled in SSHM.
I play Ninja on MT server and my item level is 421
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In any case, if someone doubts you, ask them to try you out and if you trap, feel free to kick. Make your own static or party, join a guild with similar skill leveled people, or make friends through pugging. There's lots of ways of finding people for end-game dungeons.
You're best best would be to whisper them and explain yourself, but at the end of the day it's still their lfg. If they don't want you, they just don't want you.
But like terraforming said, guild and friends is your best bet till you get skilled. Without Munekage on AV I'd probably still be unskilled because they carried my scrub [filtered].
That being said, if you were in TR, you would have more chances to find a group for SSHM. Lately i have seen a lot of groups in LFG that are training groups for SSHM.
There are not many PUG expert group. BTW, why do you even want SSHM for? EME have doubled reward from easier dungeon.
You can try for static group. But, they will ingnore any dps without +15.
1. find new guild or make a friend who do SSHM everyday.
2. most of static group or PUG team will ignore dps without +15.
3. do another dungeons. Only SSHM requires good team atm. You can try later when there are more expert people for SSHM.
Now, people don't really care about New VM weapon. It's just too expensive to enchant +15. Master alka is 65g.
i'm on MT and i'm in Wonderlust. pretty fun guild and some of us do HM content. you could apply here if you want.
Another thing, you have more chance getting in the pt which people in there are not skilled yet. If you keep trying to get into a skilled pt, then it's normal that they might or might not accept you.
You having more chance doesn't mean you having sure chance. At the end of the day, it's still their party. When you got to skilled, you would do the same most likely too. Just got to keep trying to apply and make friends.
Maybe that tank was looking for a carry?